Me (30f) and my husband (32m) Keith got married in 2019, 2 years after my wife Katrina passed in 2017. Me and Katrina got married in 2015 but we started dating in 2012. I met my husband in 2018 and we quickly started dating, he proposed on Christmas 2018. But in the past 3 weeks he has been making jokes that me and Katrina’s marriage wasn’t real because we’re both female and about how ugly she was and that he would never be caught dead dating her, I have asked him to stop but he keeps brushing me off the other day he made an especially insensitive comment about Katrina I was fed up so I blurted out “do you know how how fucking insensitive your being?” He looked at me shocked and got up walked away he hasn’t been talking to me for the past 3 days I tried apologizing multiple times but he keeps saying that what I said really hurt him so am I the asshole?